To be honesty.

When it comes to honesty, quite a lot of people believe it is essential to a person’s character and success. They base their idea on the following reasons: on one hand, successful business owes much to mutual trust; But some people think differently. They believe honesty is becoming out of date. Their reasons run as following: to begin with, cheating on exams is becoming more and more popular; in addition, some singers and movie stars cheat on taxes; last, if you are not careful enough, you’ll buy some defective goods and fake products.
It is high time we emphasized and encouraged honesty. We can take effective measures to restore it. For example, kids should be taught to tell truth,  rules should be carried out to stop cheatings on exams and taxes, etc.
quote:http://zuowen.freekaoyan.com/daxue/20080130/120165798315757.shtml

Rabbits

There is no world for escapists.
If the wolves attack you,we will come to your aid all probability.
So the rabbits continued to live near the wolves.
One day them was a terrible flood which drowned a great many wolves.
This was blamed on the rabbits,for it is well known that carrot-nibblers with long ear cause floods.
The wolves descended on the rabbits,for their own good,and imprisoned them in a dark cave,for their own protection.
When nothing was heard about the rabbits for some weeks,the other animals demands to know what had happened to them.
The wolves replied that the rabbits had been eaten and since they had been eaten the affair was a purely internal matter.
But the other animals warned that they might possibly unite against the wolves unless some reason was given for the destruction of the rabbits.
So the wolves gave them one.
"They were trying to escape,"sad the wolves,"and,as you know,there is no world for escapists."
quote：http://listen.kekenet.com/test.php?la_id=3038

Nearby holiday is coming soon

As the winter vacation is drawing near, I have no plan about my vacation. but I am going to do a lot of meaningful things in the one month holiday. The most important thing is that I want to sign up for New Concept English to improve my English. Because i must to pass my courses in the following semester, it is a good way to improve my poor writhing skills. F**k the day off. In another way, I need to save money, cause I spend lot of money on my tuition fee, so I did not dicide to playing outside or some out going schedules. it would be much better to stay at home, for I can do what I like, such as reading books, watching TV, and taling my parents in the phone. I hate cold, eventhough I was born in winter. just like I dont like summer. but in vancouver there is fun, not too much cold but a few hot. My brithday is coming soon, but in the next semester with the busy life and study.so I also did not dicide to make a brithday party or sth. I had dicide to do a lot of things in those days, but dream is over. It is just a punishment for the failling semester's. I must to pay more attention on what did I do and what am I do. Hope everthing is getting better, and everyone is fun.

everyone need to make your dream ture

Everyone has his own dream, and the dream is always sweet, but it is hard to come true.it needs us to make a strong mind to insist, also need our hard work.Someone can be successful, but someone is failed.

But the most important thing to make your dreams true is to have stronger mind and work harder. so you need to make a strong mind to insist, and try your best to fulfill your dream.

When someone has a dream, with steady hard-working and strong will, he will make perfect performance.

Is it not? Bamboo shoots stick to the road that he chose to become higher, he went through the difficult position in the dream at the past so that he is higher than the grass which wallows in the relax life with the wind. The small stream stike to the road that he chose to look for the sea, he said good bye to the huge rock which gave him no way to run, said goodbye to the mountains which leave him wind canyon, so that he reach the sea at last. 

All above prove that dream give everything confidence, guide everything to go to the road which is full of sunlight. The dream gives everything a direction to go, and the one which has dream which prove how great and splendor the dream is.

I love dream,because when I was faced with difficulty, dream made me find the sunlight outside the windows, made me look for the beautiful rainbow. The dream will guide me to go to success.

A wonderful holiday last summer

I had went to three cities to play during last summer holidays with my family.
and i still memorized all of the plessure in the places that I'd go.

They are Beijing, Dalian and HuHehot.
I went to Beijing more than eight times.
Beijing is the capital of China.It’s a urban city.
I am very familiar with Beijing,cause I had study here and my sisiter is working here.
It takes three hours frome my family to bejing. There are many tall buildings in Beijing.
It’s a modern city.My family visited the Great Wall, the Summer Palace, the Palace Museum, the Beihai Park, the Space Museum, etc.
I went to the countryside of Beijing to go boating and fishing.
It was very interesting.
I went shopping in WangFuJing.
I bought lots of souvenirs and other things.
I like eating Beijing snacks.
They are delicious.
Don’t miss Beijing Duck.
It is really nice.
Dalian is a beautiful city.
Dalian is close to Beijing.
I spent 5o minutes on the plane.
Dalian is near the sea.
I smelled the salt in the air.
The roads are clean.
There are lots of trees and flowers near the roads.
There are many esplanades and Japanese buildings.
There are some fountains in one of the esplanades.
Some people flew kites and walked on the esplanades.
We went to see the beach and the sea.
The sea is blue.
There were many swimmers in the sea.
I lay on the beach to see the sky.
Dalian is a very nice place to live in.
Huhehot is in Inner Mongol.
There are lots of large grasslands.
The grasslands are endless.
The sky is bright blue.
There were a lot of horses and sheep.
They were running or eating grass.
I rode a horse on the grassland.
I picked some colourful flowers.
We drank tea with milk.
There is a small desert, it was very hot when I walked on it.
The sand could sing.
These trips helped me open my eyes.
I enjoyed my day.

stress in life

    As everyone knows, stress is a natural part of everydays life, and there is no way to avoid it. As the pace of modern life continues to increase, we are always feeling rapidly from morning till night. And it is hard to slow down. Therefore, stress goes hand in hand with the life in a competitive society.
      Different people, however, think of stress quite differently. Some believe that stress is not the bad thing it is often supposed to be. They are of the opinion that a certain amount of stress is important to provide powers and give purposes to life. Others argue that stress contributes to one's mental decline and hence endangers his health. According to them, relaxation, the opposite of stress, is essential for a healthy mind and body.
       Personally, I＇m in favor of the former view. I think it is impossible to avoid stress when one is entirely devoted to the career he pursues. In my opinion, it is only when the stress gets out of control that it can lead to poor performance and ill health .


queto: http://bbs.yule.iciba.com/viewthread-44-400762-1.shtml

Cultural Mysteries(gifts)

As a person who hates shopping more than almost anything else in the world (yes, this species of female exists), I try not to force myself to shop until I really have to.when I catching a special day and festival that I have no choice at this time and all this stuff in my arms is not for me.

Especially for Christmas gifts; when to give to, whom to give to and what to give are always hard questions to answer, it is often more complicated if different cultures are involved, which is so usual in today.

In many times the gift giving in the two cultures are not simple.In China, you have to respect the social taboos, and never give, for example, a clock or an umbrella as gifts because their pronunciations are similar to the unlucky words for "dying" and "breaking up."But in CAN, you have to be careful to avoid a gift that is too expensive, but it must be necessary.

For example, The Chinese in the same situation would more likely put the gift aside and open it later when the giver has left. This is something Westerners find very difficult, since part of the joy of giving a gift in the US or Europe is to watch the reaction of the recipient.

The western people, when they receiving a gift, tend to open the box immediately in front of the giver and always look excited and deeply thankful to the giver. But this doesn't necessarily mean they like it.

canada give me impacting

Different country have different cultures. My father had dreamed me to study in Australia，but I choose Canada, when the first time I arrived at Canada. The great country side with much cloude and light blue sky made me feel amazing. It was totally different between Beijing and Vancouver in my mind.

Just like the first sentence : different peple have the different background and cultures.In Canada, people do everything follow the rules. The most obviously thing is everyone followed the traffic rules. However, in China, some of the dirvers drived their car across the road with their option. so that is why there has much accidence every year in China. So some of the chinese like me have the same attitute when you cross the road you have to pay attention and stop to wait the car passed. For Canadian culture effect on me that is people should be more independent and they let me feel comfortable because they let you go first, and just like everything for you are neccessary. In China,child spend their parents money until they find a job, in another words, if they can not find a job, their parents have the responsibility to feed them.  Unlike in Canada, most of the Canadian child when they  grow up and have the ability to feed theirself, they will be more independed. Almost of them start leave alone and find a job to make money. But when I look at me, i feel soshamed, and when and how I can changed to be independ. But the first thing first is follow the rules and  keep the options.

Opportunity and Success

     Opportunity is one of the elements of success. But opportunities don't come often. And not all the opportunities can certainly lead to success. Moreover, opportunities are usually disguised as hard work; therefore most people don't recognize them. So if you want to achieve something, you must make efforts and get prepared. Otherwise, you will take no advantage of opportunities when they come to you. In my opinion,  there are plenty of opportunities for everyone in our society, but only those who have made enough preparations and are highly talented can make use of them to achieve their purpose.

quote：http://www.engessay.com/chuzhongyingyu/2009/0507/4367.html

LIFE IN VAN

       I made a decision which may change all my life in the future. I came to Canada to pursue my studies. At here, I experience much different life than my life in China.

      Especially for students who use english as their second language. English is a big problem in my life. Although I have learned english and passed the test in china already, I also need half a year to one year to practice my english. In my mind, english is boring because I should to remember those words all the time that I didn't have extra choice. All my life is filled with english words. I should practice my english at anywhere to make my english better and fluent. I want the people chating with me. It is also a chance to know more about local people's life. 

    IN here, it is very necessary to have volunteer or working experience. Canadian think volunteer or working experience is the most important instead if study achievement and community ability is the second important. For the future, if you have much more diversity experiences which can help you to find a very suitable and wonderful job.

   On education, the final exam result is not important as it in china. In vancouver, the final exam result just take 40% in your full smester's mark,so that is why we must work hard. Homework is also very important. Everyone should finfsh it and hand in on time. so we must do it carefully and hard to save my time and money.

    My life in vancouver, many things are new. I'm exciting to know and discover some interesting things in my life. Althrough, I have to face many challenge and failures , but I think my life wiil be better and more colourful!

Quto:http://thesecretsofvancouver.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/vancouver-rain-clouds.jpg

Friends Make Life Colorful

Friends are important, just like John Donne; <<MEDITATION XVII Devotions upon Emergent Occasions>>, 1623; said:"No man can live like an island". But people always confused the meaning of  friends and acquaintances.Because not everyone that you know is firends. Nontheless, friends are always there when you need them. So that is why I always said :" I just have a few friends".Therefore, I can make them in tyeps easily.

The first types of friends is a far away friend that I grew up with or went to school with or live in same town with, until I moved away. However, if you didn't have a far away friend, you will never got a mail by hands writing. For example, my close friends always calls me at night and told me all of her secretes, because we can not meet everyday but understanding. Consequently, we would like to make a big celebrate when we met each other.

The second types of friends is formal friends, but with a sad thing. However, the best thing can gave you with full memory and the worst thing may made yours for the dangerous enemy, because you had know a lot about his/her secrete. For example, I have a female friend who had fighting with her friend, because her friend had talked about her seceret to someone. Therefore, some reasons( time, money, seceret, and distance) probably made friends in broken edge.

The last types of friends is new friends who are the tonic unlike any other. When the first time you talk, you can not believe how much common that you have with others, and suddenly your life story is interesting again. For example, you may met a friend at a night party, a bar, a sport game, a bus satation, or a conversation activity.Whenever or wherever, your ideas and opinions are fresh, even inside of your  personality. and your shortcoming is completely in invisible.

Abusolutly, friends are wonderful.They are dependable and responsible. They share your sadness and happiness. They are not interested in what they can get from you. They influence you, and you impact them either. Friends make our life colorful.



Quot: http://web.cs.dal.ca/~johnston/poetry/island.html  poet: John Donne

Quot: http://www.ivk.edu.ee/Itali/index.html cartoon picture<<Madagascar>>

Quot: http://www.thefreedictionary.com/friend meaning of :friend" from dictionary.

Other Pictures from my best friends: WANG Yamei, Rechal CUI



AHH. yeap that's me

Suddently I wanna ask myself

 how lazy am I.~!

Never post anyword since I applied my blogger 3days ago

 eee..eventhough

just because I dont know what I want to write on this portal,

In facts,

I had never share my experience on somewhere likes more public.

Anyway

so boring in those days: my study and  bothering life.
everyday fighting with the nightmare,
until I woke up from those horrile
my friends had told some ghost story to scary me again
because the HOLLOWEEN is coming soon.

THE crazy night on last friday.
playing on PNE
some of the people dressing well with many kinds of making up
it was an evil day.

That is so hard trying  to make my life easier. 

And I really need to changed sth in my stupid life.

relly need deep thingking and intorspetion.

However,

 I m so claim and happy in everyday.

unbelievable~!

yes~！ I dont trust my misery pleasure,too.

haha.. I would like to share my life in Van.

 And share my apparent changing.

BUY TOY AT VALUE VILLEGE

 the first week in VAN 

a year in VAN

sooo cold

raining winter

Did I changed a lot? yes, I think so.

toterm-pole near my house(2010)

last Vovember on Burnaby(2009)

damet , I dont know how to swich the picture.

I remembered this horrible day with hailstone

the first time leave my country

Dear Clear~! A good gril.

on my homestay

first time leave home so far

love the feeling

MAY2010

STANLY PARK(2010 MAY)

why there a words named :"strong"

2010 SKYTRAIN STATION NEAR MY HOUSE

LOVE THAT soooooooooo much(2010 MAY)

TRAVEL WITH MY FRIENDS

STANLY PARK

EVERYTHING GOT CHANGED.

TIME WON'T COME BACK AGAIN, BUT MEMORABLE.

THE WAY IS LIVING AT PRESENT~!

THIS ME.~! AND YOU?

OH WAIIIIIIIIIT~!

I LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE CAT SOOOOO MUCH.

WHEN THEY WERE JUST 1MONTH